Human as an individual has emotions, has feelings, that wants to show. Sometimes he can, sometimes he cannot. He tries to satisfy himself and by doing that he hurts other people, and what is worse, rejects them from himself. Then he falls into depression, isolation from the rest of the world, everyone are guilty for him because of that, he asks a God why this is happening to him.
This kind of human doesn’t know and he’s not aware what he wants, because of one thing that is standing in his way. That thing is ego, his brain, his messy and ‘must be like that’ thoughts. Everything comes from thoughts. Everything that person is imagining, everything that he’s thinking about. When the thoughts are messy ego is unhappy, and with it, unhappiness comes.
Think now about fulfilled love. Yes, it exists and you know what? It’s free.
Here is the problem. A human with ego and messy thoughts doesn’t know that. He wants this love only for himself because he was learned like that.
We all want the love. But, the real question is how we want it. Human must gravitate towards the unconditional love, to share it, to give it, to spread it without limitations and conditions. If he can manage that, then he will find true happiness.
You may ask how? If you asking now, then you may review your own thoughts.
– Nikola –
When you have unconditional love you cannot wish things that could hurt other people. It helps you to understand their emotions and your own emotions more clearly.
This kind of love breaks all concepts, like the one you mentioned: “We want love for ourselves”.
When you are constantly surrounded by the love you don’t feel afraid to share it with other people. Actually, you get a desire to help them reach it by themselves.
– Ivana –