Get rid of the need for a merger with another soul. Only when you get detached of that need completely, when you become free and happy without yearning for the energy boost (love or sexual boost) that occurs in interaction with other people, you will be free to get forward with your path.
When you embrace love within yourself, you will be able to come back and have emotional interaction with someone once again.
You won’t be willing to come back and get involved in those strong emotions, but this time it will be the higher level energy.
Get rid of the burden and love-energy games while you’re still operating at the low level consciousness.